Women and dating mistakes
Your date doesn't get to know you outside of a very superficial way, because you're too busy running down a list of things you have done.
“I remember being on a date and the guy was constantly giving me his résumé," Thomas says. Rather than running through your list of "haves" and "have-dones," pick a couple momentous moments in your life and explain why they were so meaningful to you so, yes, she gets snippet of something cool, but also a bit more about you as a person.
Unfortunately, this rarely ever comes off as awe-inspiring or attractive (and it's definitely not modest).
"No one wants to date a guy who’s too judgmental,” says Julie Spira, author of How cliché.
But worse, it’s a sign you’ve got lots (and lots) of ex baggage.
You want to be clever but not corny, sincere but not overly sensitive.
Oftentimes, guys end up creating a sort of resumé with their best selling points.